考试结果难免有喜有忧,“胜败乃兵家常事”,但如何面对考试的成败得失至关重要,“胜不骄,败不馁”最为真切地诠释了我们在考试后应怀有的心态。
我们看过很多关于成功与失败的案例。如我国历史上著名的太平天国起义,攻占北京之后,起义军被胜利冲昏了头脑,沉浸在自我满足的喜悦之中。最后,这个声势浩大的农民起义走向了灭亡。可见,无论事情有多么的成功,也要清醒的认识到,事情还在向前发展变化,还会有新的问题出现,不要为先前的成功沾沾自喜,骄傲狂妄起来。只有如此,才会乐享成功的果实。当然,面对失败,我们同样要客观清醒,不要因一时的失败而丧失勇于向前的斗志。在这方面,我们应该向古人越王勾践学习,为了实现报仇雪耻的志向,卧薪尝胆,终于从失败走向成功。
你肯定还见过一种叫做“不倒翁”的玩具,“不倒翁”的重心在下面,所以无论你怎么推它、捅它,只要一松手,它立刻又会直立起来,因此,它永远都不会趴下。人生正是这样,由于不断地经受磨难,人才能变得更坚强。你从失败中学到的东西,远比你从成功的经验中学到的东西要多得多。
其实,一个人在漫长而又短暂的人生道路上,没有谁是常胜将军,也没有谁会永远失败下去,重要的是要有一个平常心态。即使做不到如此洒脱,也不该昏昏沉沉的由着性子来。成功就大笑,失败就大闹,那是不健康的表现。同学们,其实每一个取得优异成绩的同学的背后都付出了大量的心血,洒下了很多勤奋的汗水。
请让我们把握当下,泰然面对成功,坦然面对失败,不断进步,不断努力,春华秋实,做最好的自己,让青春绽放出更加绚丽的色彩。
现代社会中,有一部分青年不能正确面对失败,他们把暂时的失败当成一种危机,实际上,失败对于我们又何不是一种挑战呢?美国著名心理学家马斯洛说“一个人面临挫折时,如果你把握住这个机会,你就成长,如果你放过了这个机会,你就退化。”正如他所说的,如果一味自责于曾经的失败,看不到未来,失去了前进的动力,那么你就会离成功越远。
同理,成功亦是如此,有时候,过多的赞扬会使人骄傲,开始浮躁,他会蒙蔽人的双眼,那么这种成功就会带来的负面影响。而我们最缺乏的就是能够正确面对成与败时的心态,也就是“胜不骄,败不馁”
应对挫折时,应树立正确的挫折观,事实上,每一次失败都可以成为自强不息、奋起拼搏、争取成功的动力和精神催化剂,迎着它寻找失败的根源,加以改善、变通,下次会做得更好,有些人因失败感到的挫折感不在于事情本身,而在于对挫折错误的认识。在面对失败后,不妨问一问自己“错误的起因何在?有哪些解决的方法?”清楚自己要做什么,这种失败将为你带来积极向上的影响。
成功是对能力的一种肯定,但过去的成功,并不能代表现在,更不能预示将来。只有保持一种淡泊、平静的心态正确面对成功,他才会为你打开通向更高峰的阶梯,了解自己成功的原因,清楚自己的不足,精益求精才是正确的做法。
许多的成功与失败,并不是我们所能预料的,也并不是我们能承担得起的。但只要我们努力去做,求得一份付出后的坦然,得到的也是一种快乐! 生活里没有旁观者,只有付出努力得到自己成果的人。在另一种意义上成功与失败都是值得高兴的!他们都指向了向更高迈进的路,难得的是,清楚地认识自己,包容自己的缺点,明晰自己的优点,才能找到这条路。
正确面对人生的成与败,这将是一笔巨大的财富
The examination results are mixed, \the critical examination of the success and failure, gain and loss, \arrogance, defeat is not hungry\after the examination mentality.
We have seen a lot of success and failure cases. Such as the history of our country famous uprising of the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, after the fall of
Beijing, the rebel blinded by victory, immersed in the joy of. Finally, this great in strength and impetus of the peasant uprising to die. Visible, no matter how successful, also should soberly realize, things are still moving forward, there will be the emergence of new problems, not pleased with oneself for the
previous success, pride and arrogance. Only in this way, can enjoy the fruits of success. Facing the failure of course, we should also be sober, objective, not because of a failure to lose the courage to move forward. In this regard, we should learn from the ancients Yue, in order to achieve the ambition to recover the ashes, sleep on the brushwood, finally success from failure.
You must have seen something called \down below, so no matter how you push it, poking it, just let it go, it
immediately and will stand erect, therefore, it will never fall. Life is such, due to constant suffering, people can become stronger. You learn things, than you learn from successful experiences of things to do.
In fact, a person in the long and the short life on the road, who is not
ever-victorious general, no one will never fail, it is important to have a normal state of mind. Even if not so free and easy, do not have dizzy spells by the way. Success is laughing, failure will make, it is not the healthy performance. The classmates, in fact every achieved excellent results students are behind a lot of effort, with many sweat.
Let us grasp the present, calmly face success, face the failure, constant
progress, continuous efforts, Chunhua Qiushi, do your best, let youth blossom a more brilliant color.
In modern society, there is a part of youth can not correctly facing the defeat, they put a temporary failure as a crisis, in fact, failure to us and what is not a challenge? The well-known American psychologist Maslow said \setbacks, if you take this chance, you grow, if you miss this opportunity, you will degenerate.\the future, lose the forward momentum, then you will be far away from success.
Similarly, the success also is so, sometimes, too much praise will make people proud, began blundering, he'll blind people's eyes, the negative influence that
success will bring. But we lack most is able to correctly face and defeat the mentality, namely \
Dealing with failures, should establish a correct concept of frustration, in fact, every failure can be unremitting self-improvement, to struggle, to strive for the successful power and spiritual catalyst, in which to find the root cause of failure, improve, flexible, you will do better next time, because some people feel the frustration of failure is not the thing itself but in the understanding of setbacks, wrong. In the face of failure, it may ask yourself \What are the solutions?\positive effects for you.
Success is a kind of affirmation of ability, but the success in the past, and can not represent the now, the more did not predict the future. Only by maintaining a kind of indifferent, calm face of success, he will open for you to step more peak, understand the reasons for their success, aware of their shortcomings, refine on is the correct practice.
The success and failure of many, and not what we expect, nor can we afford the. But as long as we try to do, get paid after a calm, obtained is also a kind of happiness!
There is no observer of life, only hard work getting the results of. In another sense, success and failure is to be happy! They are pointing to more high into the road, rare is, clearly understand their own, inclusive of his shortcomings, clear their own advantages, to find the road.
Success and failure to face life, this will be a great asset

