To love or to be loved, which is happier?
Good morning, everyone.
With your permission, I’m going to read this paper. I’m going to read it for three reasons: one, I have a very poor memory –and the other two, I can’t remember.
Well. Now, I am going to speaking about something that is vitally important to all of us. Let me ask you a question first, which is happier, to love or to be loved? What do you think? Different people hold different opinions on this question apparently.
Some people believe to love is happier because they think it is no limit, you can love whatever you want--one story,one food,even one smile. On the contrary,others think to be loved means you can enjoy one’s love without paying which make ones happier. As far as I am concerned, I am fully in favor of the former opinion. I will prove my view as following reasons.
Firstly, in psychology, giving to receive is to love to to be loved so that if you want to get something, you must make your effort on it first. Simply speaking, the way to get the real and enduring happiness is show the love but not wait to be loved. Let’s put it into the realistic example. One day if you come across the boy or girl you like, what make you easier to feel happy? Go ahead to introduce yourself or just waiting for him or her to come over to say hello?
In addition, to love is happier than to be loved because to love is more positive. It’s all up to you,. You can choose the right person, timing and place to love, even the way to love. You are the one who are the object to express love and are expected to gain the happiness. In the opposite side,what a terrible thing like that you have no idea who is loving you, when and how. Obviously, to love is happier than to be loved.
Last but not least, the reason why I believe to love is happier than to be loved is the former make you more sensitive to feel the happiness. One day one of my friends told me that she fell in love with a boy secretly with shyness. What interesting me is every time she mentioned the boy’s name, she just smiled unconsciously.She told me she felt happy than ever she have been even though she have no idea the boy like she or not.Literally, to love make everything around you amazing.So to love is happier than to be loved.
One more thing, to love makes you feel happier for it do urge you to go after a better life with more enthusiasm and ambition.
In short, to love is the entrance to gain happiness at the root. More love you show, more happiness you get. Keep that in mind and have a good day.
Thanks for your listening.
